The Wedding of Success & Failure... And they Begot Curly-Headed Glories!
When we confront a given challenge, it is not uncommon that we experience some level of anxiety.
If we investigate this experience, we generally find its source to be a fear failure. I would like to provide a different perspective for such cases:
“Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.”
It is precisely through the process of committing & subsequently correcting mistakes that we develop any skill at all. Through repeated recognition of success & failure, we become familiar with the contrast between them, not conceptually, but in a living way. This is the method by which we develop true expertise. If, by a sheer fluke of statistics & probability, I happened to succeed in every one of my attempts, as attractive as such an outcome might seem, in truth, this would be a pity. I might be called "cursèd" & spat upon withal. Why? Because it would altogether deprive me of the possibility to master the skill in question. Success is born of failure; failure begets success. They are related as the chicken to her egg—and what is a chicken but one egg's way of becoming another?
Once we have accepted this paradigm of mutual dependence & polarity, our fears dissolve. Our onetime anxiety naturally dissipates with the dissolution of its cause. Ironically, by embracing failure, we ensure success—erstwhile opposites now nuptially conjoined. The alchemical wedding of success with failure is the first taste of freedom.
The consummation comes when we allow the perspective of practice to permeate all aspects of our lives.
